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My In-laws or Relatives Are Driving Me Insane What Can I Do? Part 2 by Bill Knell
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If things do turn sour and they take you to court, you will have the advantage of proof that you are paying the debt. Judges hate deadbeats. Even if your payments are not voluminous or as originally agreed to, the fact that you are paying back your relatives or in-laws will impress the judge. That may give you a chance to continue payments under court supervision instead of having an instant balloon judgment entered against you.
It's not business, it's just personal. O.K. So you don't owe them any money and can't think of anything that you ever did to your relatives or in-laws to unleash the kind of harassment they seem bent on sending your way. What do you do? The answer is tough love, and it will be very tough.
I have a close friend who has issues with her mother. To make a long story short, Mom abused her in many ways. Besides scolding her feet in hot water because she dirtied her diaper as a toddler, Mom made this woman her scapegoat and favored her brother. He could do no wrong. Dad had died when she was very young and the rest of the family turned their heads when it came to the abuse. Every penny this woman earned up until she left the house at the age of eighteen ended up in Mom's pocket.
No one wants to admit their parent is a negative influence in their life. It gets worse when the parent is a Child Abuser who simply lacks the ability to love or nurture their child. TV Shrinks, much-married Talk Show Hosts or know-it-all family members often make matters worse by trying to reunite children with parents that simply hate or have no interest in them. Even if such a reunion takes, it's unlikely to provide any relief or a permanent fix for any of those involved.
My close friend tried many reunions over the years. They were usually instigated by her Mother's need to be with someone when her brother was away. Once the brother returned, my friend was left emotionally back out in the cold.
The answer for her and anyone with relatives that create or have created those kinds of problems for them is to simply stay away. Do whatever needs to be done to avoid relatives or in-laws that regularly harass or have seriously harmed you in some way. You may miss some family events, but you'll keep your sanity.
What happens if your better half has relatives that love them and hate you? Ooh, that's a tough one! It's been my experience that situations like that usually get worse and never better. Part of the problem may be that you simply had no idea that the fabulous individual you married or got involved with was related to people you just know were serial killers in another life!
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A native New Yorker now living in Arizona, Bill Knell is a forty-something guy with a wealth of knowledge and experience. He's written hundreds of articles on a wide variety of subjects. A popular Speaker, Bill Knell presents seminars on a number of topics that entertain, train and teach. A popular radio and television show Guest, you've heard Bill on thousands of top-rated shows in all formats and seen him on local, national and international television programs.
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