Interpreting Tarot -- Reading the Book of Life
By
Rebecca Brents
from the Mailbox
It's interesting to see how things unfold and look at the readings with the benefit of hindsight, isn't it? (You really were right on the money, as I look back.)
A Premium Member
New Age -- New Horizons is our information-packed free ezine to keep you up-to-date on new articles, current astrology, classes, books, ebooks, tidbits, fun facts, and other interesting things here at Enchanted Spirit
View our current issue
New and Featured
Articles
Free Astrology Ebook
Free Tarot Ebook
Free Content for Webmasters
from the Mailbox
You guys got it so very right once more! I just don't understand how you can be so very accurate!
A Premium Member
Recommended Book from Amazon
Change Your Thoughts - Change Your Life: Living the Wisdom of the Tao
By
Wayne W. Dyer
 |
|
 |
Family As An Entity |
| Astrology, Tarot, and Self Improvement for the New Age. | |
      |
Astrology Tarot New Age (Home) / Family Matters
Email This Page to a Friend
| Get Your Kids to Listen to You | Family Matters Contents |
My In-laws or Relatives Are Driving Me Insane |
Are You a Writer? A Musician? A Photographer? An Artist?
Are you seeking a more meaningful, more focused creative dimension to life? Nourish your Inner Artist with our new creativity class. Answering Creativity's Call presents an hour and a half of lessons and lectures, packed with inspiration, information, strategies and support to help you be the creator you want to be and live the creative life you want to have. Learn more here: Creativity Class
Family As An Entity
Part 1
by Skye Thomas
On the Horizon
Our Premium Members receive this wonderful Astrology Ezine every month, containing detailed advisories and specific predictions during each new Zodiac Sign.
To learn how Life's grand scheme will claim your attention every month, become a Premium Member at Enchanted Spirit!!
Get the information you need.
Discover the difference
knowledge and preparation
can make in your life!
Join our
Astrology and Tarot
Premium Membership
today!!
Page: 1 2
As a mother, I feel that it's my duty to look out for the needs of each individual in the family. I believe that no one person, child nor adult, is more important than any other. Every single member of the family is unique and special and their needs are unique and special. Even if all kids live under the same house rules, they're taught and enforced differently depending on each one's learning curve and personality type.
Also the adults in the house are to be equal regardless of who raises the kids and who brings home the money. Everyone's emotional health, spiritual health, and physical health are equally important. But there's a hidden family member that sometimes gets forgotten when we're juggling the needs of everyone. What about the family as a unit? How does it weigh into the equation?
First let's look at the dynamics of the individuals in the family. The adults can't make themselves the center of the universe. Parents who are so caught up in their own careers, relationships, or just in their own heads all of the time, often have lonely depressed children who doubt their parents' love and devotion.
Studies have already shown a very high percentage of teens experimenting with drugs and alcohol are from homes where the parents are too self absorbed to notice or to pay attention to what's happening with their own kids.
On the other hand, it's very easy as parents to sacrifice ourselves for the greater good of the family. I suspect that this very dynamic plays into the resentments and underlying tensions found in most households. The adults often give up their dream jobs, drop out of college, or stops having a social life outside of the family because at some point along the way it seemed like the answer to some problem.
For whatever reason, there's no time, energy, or money left for the adults when all is said and done. They seldom get to pick up those pieces of themselves that they sacrificed along the way. The parents shouldn't become martyrs to their kids or the family. It's up to the parents to find a healthy balance between the two extremes.
I've heard a lot of people say that the children should always come first at any cost. I don't agree. Children who are raised to be the center of the universe grow up to be adults who believe that they have a rightful place as the center of everyone else's universe too. It's unfair to teach the kids that they are more important then everyone else. They become self-esteem monsters and bullies.
The real world will teach them a very difficult lesson. People won't like them no matter how special Mommy and Daddy think they are. It's better to teach children that everyone is equal in regards to needs, hopes and dreams, responsibilities, and other dynamics of getting along in the world.
Mommy's need for peace and quiet once in awhile is every bit as important as little Billy's need to jump and run and play. The key again is for the parents to find a balance between the opposing needs.
Page: 1 2
Skye Thomas began writing books and articles with an everyday practical approach to life in 1999 after twenty years of studying spirituality, metaphysics, astrology, personal growth, motivation, and parenting. After years of high heels and business clothes, she is currently enjoying working from home in her pajamas.
Go to Tomorrow's Edge to read more of her articles and to get a free preview of one of her books. Contact her at Skye@TomorrowsEdge.net
If something comes to life in others because of you,
then you have made an approach to immortality.
~ Norman Cousins ~
Born June 24, 1912
| Get Your Kids to Listen to You | Family Matters Contents |
My In-laws or Relatives Are Driving Me Insane |
Astrology Tarot New Age (Home) / Family Matters
Please click on the titles to visit these fine areas of Enchanted Spirit
                            |
 | |
 |
PO Box 1080 Sandia Park · NM · 87047 |
| Enchanted Spirit is a non-denominational spiritual center of healing, support, self-improvement, personal guidance, education and writing. We publish multi-media works of New Age thought and information to encourage serenity and growth in individual life choices, advance the universal search for life's meaning, and promote tolerance for positive ideas from all philosophies and religious traditions, believing as we do that truth is where you find it. |
This site is hosted and maintained for Enchanted Spirit by
Catweasel Ink
Copyright © 1999 - 2008 by Enchanted Spirit and Catweasel Ink.
Contributed works copyright by their respective authors. All rights reserved.
Unauthorized reproduction specifically prohibited.
Last updated February 22nd, 2005
Rebecca is not available
right now.
Please check back
later
CLICK HERE FOR
MORE INFO
Arrange a Call
Departments:
Astrology Coaching
Astrology
Astrology Readings
Tarot
Tarot Readings
Consultations
Members Only
Source Shop
Classes
The Enchanted Sprite
Catweasel's Toys
New Age Writers Forum
The Auditorium
In the Spotlight
Real Life Lines
Catweasel's Corner
Inspirational Ideals
Magical Mysteries
Feng Shui Feature
Numerology Notes
Health Hints
The Inner Sanctum
Family Matters
Words of Wisdom
Weblogs
The Reading Room
Oracles
Kaleidoscope
The Writer's Wellspring
Astrology Tarot
Recommended Book from Amazon
This Is Not the Life I Ordered: 50 Ways to Keep Your Head Above Water When Life Keeps Dragging You Down
By
Deborah Collins Stephens
|
Learn Astrology
Learn Tarot
Astrology Readings
Tarot Readings
For the best in
Astrology and Tarot
Personal Development
Self-Improvement
New Age Living
visit
Enchanted Spirit
often!!