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Coaxing Back the Spirit of Your Introverted Child
Part 5
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An example: Most INTP children can't stand up for themselves verbally under stress. They become "frozen" and their own muteness adds to feelings of rage and impotence. Later on these are the people who can't finish their PhDs or meet deadlines.

In childhood terms, your child's behavior may be interrupted at school as disrespectful. At school children are expected to answer when spoken to, even when attacked. Your child needs your support in understanding how impossible this may be and how unfair the suspicion of disrespect because the battle is an inner one not a social one.

On a more personal level, you will earn the undying gratitude and loyalty of an INTP child if you are the one in their presence who allows them their silence with unspoken commiseration.

Ways in which their reality is denied:

• Encouraging INTPs to broaden their interests is useless and annoying -- focus is one of the great attributes of this type of introvert and all introverts.

• Requiring INTPs to follow-through is counterproductive -- they are theorizers -- they like to do things in their head and later on will excel at this while others are employed for follow through (think of a structural engineer or a product design engineer).

• Telling an INTP to "lighten up" is cruel -- they are hyper critical of their own performance and it's no use trying to convince them not everything needs to be virtuoso.

Successful INTP Architects from history include Albert Einstein and Charles Darwin, Abraham Lincoln and Socrates.

INFJ The Counselor

The third type of introvert we will look at is the INFJ Counselor. This type can eat, drink and exercise to excess, become critical and fault finding and behave in very materialistic and selfish ways when under stress.

They are also capable of slipshod ethics and morality under stress. This is not normally characteristic of them and is a dead giveaway that they are miserably unhappy. INFJs make up 1% of men and 2% of women in the world.

This type is particularly vulnerable to hurt feelings. If their close personal relationships fail, they may be literally devastated, more so than any other type. If stress continues, they feel "unreal", fragmented and disassociated. They split off from their physical bodies and suffer paralysis due to suppressed feelings. Physical symptoms can be real or imaginary.

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See more fine articles by Nancy Fenn in our Seers and Sages section and our Coaches and Counselors section.

Nancy R. Fenn is an astrologer and intuitive consultant in the San Diego area. She enjoys working with intuitives, creatives and visionaries to help them discover their vision for the future and their mission in life. She has an international clientele and maintains a website full of good resources for astrologers of all levels. Nancy is also the Introverts' Coach providing support and resources for the eight different types of introverts. Introversion is a legitimate personality type and not a failure to be an extrovert.

You can find Nancy at: Be My Astrologer, The IntrovertZ Coach, Be My Guide, I Design Webpages.

Nancy invites all introverts to take the Six Weeks' Online Self Discovery Course, a course designed by introverts for introverts. Raise your awareness, heal and understand yourself better, recover your positive identity and raise your self esteem. Click through to: Introverts' Self Discovery Course for more information.

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