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Say "Yes" To Your Life
Part 2
by Sharon L. Demarte

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If saying no is difficult for you, what can you do to make it easier? Here are my Top 10 Tips for making it easier to say no more often, so you can say yes to your life:

1. Get clear about what's REALLY important to you. Create your personal strategic plan - your vision and goals. Remember that old saying "If you don't know where you're going, how will you know when you get there?"

2. Use an "Absolute Yes" list. This idea came from Cheryl Richardson's book "Life Makeovers". "This is a list of the top five priorities that need attention in your life for the next three to six months" It serves as a light illuminating your yes and no decisions. For example, my "Absolute Yes" list consists of:

• Vibrant health
• Strong relationships with family and friends
• Abundant financial resources
• A nurturing and nourishing home and work environment
• A successful, fulfilling coaching practice

When I receive a request or am tempted to add something else to my life, I check my "Absolute Yes" list to see if it fits.

3. Share your vision and "Absolute Yes" list" with your loved ones. Tell them what you are up to and ask for their support. People who love and care for you want what's best for you.

4. Practice Mindfulness - be aware in the moment. Give yourself time to make a mindful decision - it's worth it. Tell the person you'll get back to them. And then:

• Check in with your "Absolute Yes" list and your vision. Ask yourself, "Does this fit in with what's most important to me and will this take me closer or further away from my destination?"

• If you are tempted to say yes even though everything in you says no, ask yourself "What would be my intention in saying yes?" This is time for ruthless honesty. Would it be to please another, avoid conflict - what is it that's tempting you to sabotage yourself ?

• And finally, ask yourself, "Is this an emergency?" and "Does this person have other alternatives?"

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Sharon Demarte is a Quality of Life Coach. She coaches individuals by telephone and internet, helping her clients close the gap between where they are and where they want to be. Her clients come from all walks of life. She works best with people who have a strong desire, a willingness to take action, and are motivated to increase the quality of their lives ? sometimes even in difficult situations.

One of her specialties is working with Caregivers. She works with caregivers to help them avoid caregiver burnout and maintain their own health, well-being and quality of life while caring for another. She also loves to work with people who are Too Young To Retire ? they are the age of customary retirement, but choose to go on to yet another career.

If you are a person who wants more out of life and would like to explore the possibilities of partnering with Sharon as your coach, please contact her in whatever way is comfortable for you. By email: demartes@nventure.com; by fax (confidential): 253-568- 0453; by telephone: 206-938-1867.

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Racing with the Moon
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