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	Introverts! Recover Your Holidays! Part 2 by Nancy R. Fenn Be My Astrologer
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Introverts! Recover Your Holidays!
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by Nancy R. Fenn

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Stage Two, Level Two: Also during this time period and the year ahead -- and this is critical to success -- whenever you interact with a family member outside of the holiday context, especially one-on-one, plant the seed.

Use some positive reinforcement for your Game Plan. Tell them how much you are enjoying this quiet visit, how meaningful it is to interact with them without the distraction of so many other people around and how much easier it is for you because you're an introvert and introverts [insert any one of the qualities about introversion you want them to learn.]

Remember when people are learning something new, you can often repeat exactly the same thing many times before they actually hear it. This is human nature, so be patient and willing to repeat simple information many times.

Stage Three: At next year's holidays, after a full year of love, attention, consciousness raising and educating, you'll remind your dear ones on a few occasions that as an introvert you're going to pass on this one.

Stage Four: Following years, you'll excuse yourself from at least half the events or attend only half the time, and at the same time begin creating ways of observing the holidays that are more meaningful to you.

I like staring at the Christmas tree lights and listening to beautiful music in my own home. I find this spiritual and fulfilling. I also like candles. And I totally love singing carols at the piano with my daughter.

Stage Five: Complete emancipation, enjoying the holidays your way. A little with the dear ones, a lot for yourself! It can take awhile, but progress will be noted and relief is afforded every stage along the way.

It also sounds like you have a family we describe in astrology as Neptunian. (There are two basic types of families, Uranian and Neptunian.) Neptunian families actually fear people who can stand alone and are threatened by them. Perhaps that is why you were born in to this family.

The secret healing is that in beginning to carve out your own territory, you will be giving others in the family permission to do so as well. Watch and see! It's exciting for people to discover that they can differentiate and come into their own. You'll be leading the way.

P.S. As a warm introvert who loves people, I'll pass along to you my #1 bullet to load in the gun when things just get too much this year. Plead sick but be sure to use the family values: "I'm not going to come because it would just kill me for (frail 90-year old Uncle Sweetheart) or (NewBorn Baby Tootsie) to catch what I've got. It just wouldn't be right."

In this example, you're making the family values work for you. Be sure to say what vulnerable members of the family you are protecting thoughtfully by not coming. This indicates that you are thinking of the family at all times, whether or not you can personally be there.

Good luck! Check back with me this time next year for progress. If you have any questions about this, please email me at parklanenancy@hotmail.com. I'm here to support you.

©2003 Nancy R. Fenn

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See more fine articles by Nancy Fenn in our Seers and Sages section and our Coaches and Counselors section.

Nancy R. Fenn is an astrologer and intuitive consultant in the San Diego area. She enjoys working with intuitives, creatives and visionaries to help them discover their vision for the future and their mission in life. She has an international clientele and maintains a website full of good resources for astrologers of all levels. Nancy is also the Introverts' Coach providing support and resources for the eight different types of introverts. Introversion is a legitimate personality type and not a failure to be an extrovert.

You can find Nancy at: Be My Astrologer, The IntrovertZ Coach, Be My Guide, I Design Webpages.

Nancy invites all introverts to take the Six Weeks' Online Self Discovery Course, a course designed by introverts for introverts. Raise your awareness, heal and understand yourself better, recover your positive identity and raise your self esteem. Click through to: Introverts' Self Discovery Course for more information.

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