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	'EQ' Your Request and Increase Your Chances of Getting It Part 2 by Susan Dunn Momentum Coaching
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'EQ' Your Request and Increase Your Chances of Getting It
Part 2
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Integrated Self: Staying Centered

Only when we're three years old do we think we're going to die if we don't get what we want ... or as teenagers ... or as adults, if we aren't thinking straight. EQ means being able to think clearly and act appropriately while under the press of strong emotions (your own and others'). Yes, it's important to have that raise/hot fudge sundae/kiss/help with the dishes, but life will still go on without them.

The less 'desperate' you are, the more likely you'll get what you want. Just a rule of life.

Before you make this request, do what we call "the EQ-Checkin." Ask yourself "How am I feeling physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually." This will get you in touch with all parts of yourself, and prepare you to make reasonable requests in a reasonable manner.

Trust Radius

The past ended one minute ago. Don't let it make you cynical, bitter and untrustful of others. If you approach your life that way, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you are suspicious, other people pick up on it. They then think there's a reason to be suspicious themselves . emotions are CONTAGIOUS.

Approach other people ASSUMING they are going to give you what you want. Unless it's a preposterous request, or you state it in such a way it becomes one, you're likely to get it. Consider for a moment how you would ask for something if you "knew" you would get it. You would be matter-of-fact, courteous, gently forthright, and brief.

Think of the relationships that do run smoothly for you. A simple, "Let's stop here for a snack before we continue the drive," is all it takes.

Constructive Discontent

The relationships in your life are ongoing. You'll be making further requests, so establish a positive pattern. If you are denied, take it well. Don't make the other person feel uncomfortable.

When you are given what you request, express your gratitude. No one - no matter how intimately involved with you - MUST give you what you ask for. You are not "entitled" to anything. So when you get what you want, let them know how much you appreciate it. This sets the stage for further good things to happen. No one wants to be taken for granted.

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