The Circle of Life -- The Zodiac Signs and the New Moon's Journey
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Rebecca Brents

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With Real Astrology as your compass, you can recognize what's right for you, work with your natural gifts and rhythms, understand the dynamics of your relationships, and take your place more easily in Life's natural flow.

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Designing Your Own Tarot Spreads (Special Topics in Tarot)
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Teresa Michelsen, Mary K. Greer

Sometimes getting the right answer means asking the right question.

Life is full of hints, signs, and advice ... if you know where to look and what you're looking for.

Astrology and Tarot are tools that blend free will and useful information into new dimensions of thought ... so you can discover your best options. But the choice to act is always yours.

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	'EQ' Your Request and Increase Your Chances of Getting It Part 3 by Susan Dunn Momentum Coaching
Astrology, Tarot, and Self Improvement for the New Age.

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'EQ' Your Request and Increase Your Chances of Getting It
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Flexibility

Formulate what you want in such a way it can be met. Be willing to accommodate. You may want to stop on the road for a snack . can you wait another 30 minutes in order to accommodate your partner who has his own reasons? Can you wait for a place that has barbecue? Can you wait for a place that also sells gas?

Creativity

You'll remove the desperation if you're creative in finding ways to get what you want.

If you're told "no," and there's somewhere else you can get it, go there. This will increase your personal power and also take the pressure off your relationship with the original person.

Sometimes when the first person see you going elsewhere, they rush in to give it as well. There's no accounting for human nature; it's a reality to be dealt with.

Intentionality

Ariceli's whining voice shows she intends to be turned down. If you intend to state your reasonable request forthrightly, knowing you have a right to request and expect it to be given due consideration and granted if possible, and you get much of what you ask for, let it show.

Intuition

Ah, the master EQ competency. How do you know whom to ask and when? Use your intuition! Work with an EQ coach to develop this important lifeskill.

Optimism: The Facilitator Of All The Eq Competencies

The reason things aren't working for Areceli is she's pessimistic. She expects to be turned down. This makes her timid to make the request in the first place, and defeatist when she does.

When she IS turned down, like all pessimists Areceli makes it "personal,' permanent and pervasive." How does this work? Let's say she asked Ben to give her the day off. He declined. He had his reasons. Areceli told herself, "He said 'no' because I'm no good at asking (personal), I never will be (permanent), "and furthermore, I'm not good at anything (pervasive)."

Now when we check with Ben, here's why he declined. Three other people in Areceli's department had already been granted the day off. Any other day, he would've been glad to let her go. It's as simple as that.

Develop your Emotional Intelligence competencies and apply them to all areas of your life for more positive results. EQ has more to do with success, happiness and health than IQ, and it can be learned.

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Remembering with Love: Messages of Hope for the First Year of Grieving and Beyond
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Elizabeth Levang