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	Key to Excellent Communication Part 1 by Susan Dunn Momentum Coaching
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Key to Excellent Communication
Part 1
by Susan Dunn

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Excellent communication. It's what we're all after, when the first rule of communication is to assume you've been misunderstood.

We generally work very hard to express what we have in mind, and in giving instructions to go over each one step-by-step. We also try and listen carefully, and to repeat back what we think we've heard to be sure. And if we're selling, we try an anticipate objections. But there's one part that's very helpful we often leave out.

I learned it from my Dad, a great communicator, when I was a teenager. I didn't like to listen too closely, and often knew less than I thought I did. Like most teenagers. He was a gifted teacher, a patient and careful communicator, and convincing judges no doubt prepared him to convince teenage girls.

Now this will mean nothing to you if you haven't driven from a northern suburb into Chicago on Lake Shore Drive, but I hope you can think of something similar in your own experience.

As you make the drive, there are several turns and then one big swing toward the Lake. If you live there and are at all 'directional', you always know the Lake is on your left when you're going south and going into Chicago is south.

Coming home, you keep the Lake on your right. The suburbs were laid out on a grid, long before planned communities, and it's one area where you can turn right, right, and right again and get back to where you started from. (When I moved to rural North Carolina and tried this, I ended up in another county!)

Now, on this particular occasion I was going to the ballpark for the first time, and my Dad was telling me how to get there. He carefully gave me the instructions, drawing me a map on a piece of paper, and said, "Now when you get to XXX, instead of turning left as you always do, you're going to go straight ahead."

I said I got it and was ready to head out the door. Just before I did, he said, "Just remember: Resist all urges to turn left." I said "okay" and headed out.

When I got to the turn, I saw what he meant. Straight ahead looked like a dead end. If I was sure of anything, it was that I should go ahead and follow the hundreds of cars swinging left. Only my father's "resist all urges" kept me going straight ahead, and on to the ballpark.

And the fact he phrased it that way piqued my curiosity. "What's that?" I thought. So I remembered.

I also felt very close to him as the turn appeared. This is the sort of engagement you like to have with someone you're learning from or working with. I thought he was really something to have anticipated how I would be feeling.

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