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	Whose Fault Was It? Part 1 by Susan Dunn Momentum Coaching
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Whose Fault Was It?
Part 1
by Susan Dunn

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"I thought we had a call scheduled for 10 a.m. today," the client was telling me, with irritation in her voice. A client working on emotional intelligence, she was truly "showing her stuff."

She was making me feel like an idiot, and also making me mad.

"I had it down for 9 a.m.," I said, "but I could've been wrong. Anyway, I'm glad we've connected. I have time now, do you? We can get to work."

Wrong!

"It was at 10 a.m.," the client replied, digging in for the long haul. I was about to start earning my money.

I train people in Emotional Intelligence, so this was both an "ah hah" moment for me, and an "ug." "Ah hah" as the coach - I was experiencing in real time one of the things that's holding this client back. And "ug" as a person, because I was experiencing in real time what's holding this client back.

No matter how far we move toward mastering EQ, we never get rid of those negative emotions, BTW. (The "ug".) It's a matter of getting information from them. So I note them, and consider what my response will be, if any. EQ is about choices.

What's the "ug" about? I knew we'd be wasting time and energy while this client attempted to (1) figure out whose fault it was, and I had a feeling (intuition) she needed it to be MINE; and (2) get her feelings affirmed that she had been wronged. And I had the feeling (confirmed), that she was going to be a bulldog about it. Nothing short of someone's head on a platter would do!

The "ah hah" was that she was inducing in me the same feelings she induced in the people she worked with, so I had one explanation as to why she got passed over for raises and promotions, and why she had been called "difficult." Now "difficult" had a face.

Areas of low EQ had shown up on her assessment, the EQ Map, but I was glad to see her playing them out, because then I could help her get unstuck. Fast forward 5-10 minutes; it seemed like an eternity to me! She has gone over the details, using practically the same words each time, beginning to hammer at me that I admit it's my fault.

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Susan Dunn, MA, Clinical Psychology, The EQ CoachT, Susan Dunn, MA, cEQc, The EQ Coach™, Susan Dunn. Bringing the power of Emotional Intelligence to YOUR life through coaching, eBooks, and distance learning. Midlife, retirement and transition coaching, career and relationships. Email for free EQ ezine. Want to be a certified EQ Coach? Email for information on this fast, affordable, comprehensive, no-residency program. Products available for licensing to build your practice. Visit the best ebook library on the Internet - EBook Library.

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