Interpreting Tarot -- Reading the Book of Life
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Rebecca Brents

Sometimes getting the right answer means asking the right question.

Life is full of hints, signs, and advice ... if you know where to look and what you're looking for.

Astrology and Tarot are tools that blend free will and useful information into new dimensions of thought ... so you can discover your best options. But the choice to act is always yours.

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365 Health and Happiness Boosters
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	Ways to Guarantee a Successful Marriage by Mark Brandenburg, MA, CPCC Mark Brandenburg
Astrology, Tarot, and Self Improvement for the New Age.

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1. Forget about getting your needs met.

Getting your needs met is a failed concept for couples. Focus on your spouse and what you can do for them. This is the best way to bring out the best in both of you.

2. Keep some meaningful rituals in your relationship.

Whether it's having a dinner conversation after work every night or taking a long walk, have something in place that allows you to stay in touch with each others' lives.

3. Have a five-to-one ratio of positive to negative interactions.

There should be five hugs, compliments, or squeezes of the arm for every roll of the eyes, every criticism, or every episode of blaming.

4. Be relentless in your pursuit of self-improvement and trying to be a better spouse.

Healthy marriages tend to grow and change. This means that you must be willing to try on new behaviors and to take some risks.

5. Make your marriage full of special surprises.

Marriages are more alive and exciting when there are surprises sprinkled in to them. Surprise your spouse with a vacation, a special date night, flowers, candy, or anything else that excites them.

6. Take great self care.

If you're all stressed out and unhappy, you're going to be a bear to be around! Make sure that you follow a program of self care that allows you to give energy to the relationship.

7. Develop a common interest that you can share together.

You're going to be spending a lot of time together. It's nice to have an activity to share that helps you to enjoy that time together. Whether it's golfing, traveling, or shopping, find your common interests and turn them into pleasurable experiences.

8. Focus on being kind and not on being right.

It's easy to spend time showing your spouse that you're right. Focus on being kind instead and you'll argue less and enjoy each other more.

9. When things do get heated, commit to a plan that works.

Don't say things in the heat of the moment that may do damage to your relationship. Have a plan in place that may include: walking away, continuing the discussion at a later date, or some sort of relaxation response.

10. Develop a great network of support around you.

Whether it's friends or family, have a group of people that you spend time with whom you can confide in and share times with. It always helps to know that others are going through the same things you are.

(c) 2003 Mark Brandenburg -- All rights reserved.

Mark Brandenburg MA, CPCC, coaches parents by phone to balance their life and improve their family relationships.

He is an Instructor for the Academy for Coaching Parents, and author of "Secrets of Emotionally Intelligent Fathers" Ecourse.

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The Mist-Filled Path: Celtic Wisdom for Exiles, Wanderers, and Seekers
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