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	Dating Myths That Puzzle Men Part 2 by Susan Dunn Momentum Coaching
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Dating Myths That Puzzle Men
Part 2
by Susan Dunn

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Women only want men with money.

If you think that's true, then it's true. There are some women to whom that's the major appeal, but do you want such a woman? You do not. This is where the neocortex comes in and when you THINK.

You may have money now, but life is full of ups and downs, and if that's the basis for her attraction to you, it's the money she's after, not a relationship with you. So don't lead with money.

But I really love her and I told her early on.

Increase your empathy. Here's a reality-check. From the woman's point of view, sometimes we can't cross a room without getting propositioned 5 times.

To be pursued by a man is not a novel event for a woman. It's common place. It's what men do. (Not that we don't enjoy it!) Be a little creative and flexible (EQ competencies) and keep in mind that most women pay more attention to how a man acts and what he does rather than what he says, because ... men are men.

We want to see if you're going to stick around. We want to see if you have Intentionality. Intentionality is meaning what you say and saying what you mean. It's also being accountable for your motives. We want to see if you're a man of your word. We want to know also what your intentions are.

Women only like men who treat them badly.

No, healthy women don't like to be treated badly. BUT, women are not as strong in Intentionality as men (Bar-on, Ph.D.), and are stronger in Empathy, which means they do more processing. If you come on too strong, you're likely to shut down thinking and feeling both, things you don't want to do.

Let's say that love and marriage would be the epitome of "nice" - well, I don't think I'm an atypical woman and I had a man propose marriage to me once on the first date. It was a shock. I was so flooded with negative emotions I didn't want to see him again.

Flowers and candy will buy her affection.

Would a Rolex or a power tool buy yours?

I don't know what to do.

Well, most of us don't, most of the time, and we just muddle on through. Women are higher in empathy than men, so tend to have a good idea - if you want to kiss her, she knows it. If you're not there emotionally, she can tell.

Just be yourself is the best rule -- honest, imperial and true --build your resilience (work with a coach), and remember to be self-forgiving for the times you don't quite live up to your expectations.

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