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by Susan Dunn"People with small minds talk about other people.
People with average minds talk about events.
People with great minds talk about ideas" (Anonymous)And people with great hearts talk about feelings.
Dr. Phil has done it again -- come up with just the right descriptive phrase. On his show the other day, he confronted a young man saying: "Are you just an arrogant jerk who likes to get in someone else's face and bark?"
I was in need of this descriptive phrase because I was in an office the other day where one of the principals did just that -- he would get in someone else's face and bark. Every time. All day long. That was his only modus operandi. It worked. But in what way?
I was reminded of this because my sister just e- mailed me that she'd had an awful day. She'd been trying to fix a defective keyboard, she said, "while listening to my neighbor's dog bark every 3 1/2 minutes."
My own poor dog, as she became aged (and she lived 17 years) would become confused easily, and if frightened or upset, would bark every few seconds at regular intervals, until she became hoarse. She would do it at my house if left outside to what was to her "too long" (so of course we didn't), but when I had to leave her at the kennel when I took a trip, the kennel owner said she had done this for 24 hours (heart-breaking).
However -- when she would do this, I responded. While compassionate for her condition (blind, nearly deaf, very old, and much beloved), it was one of the most irritating things I've had to endure, and I would do ANYTHING to stop it. The kennel lady felt the same way. She ended up taking my dog home with her.
Unfortunately, there are people who do the same thing only with words. It has the immediate effect of getting them what they want, but with EQ, we're always looking at the long-term situation, yes? Everyone threw this man what he wanted because they would do anything to get rid of him.
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Leadership is a matter of having people look at you and gain confidence, seeing how you react. If you're in control, they're in control.
~ Tom Landry ~
Born September 11, 1924
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