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If Not Now when: Reclaiming Ourselves at Midlife
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	He Didn't Lie You Just Weren't Paying Attention Part 2 by Susan Dunn Momentum Coaching
Astrology, Tarot, and Self Improvement for the New Age.

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He Didn't Lie
You Just Weren't Paying Attention
Part 2
by Susan Dunn

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There are times when we all say things we don't mean. In fact it comes up early in dating when we start to feel like getting serious and maybe are having a little case of the nerves. Dating at midlife, we don't get to approach a clean slate like we do in our 20s.

As I talk about in my ebook, "Midlife Dating Survival Manual for Women," we step into the current of someone else's life and there's what we call "baggage." But at the same time, this "baggage" gives us an opportunity to see what the person's history is. It's best to keep in mind what you know will work for you, and what won't, and to stick to it when the emotions are running high.

Let's take the example of male fidelity. However you feel about this intellectually, you know in your heart whether you can tolerate it or not. So let's say it's on your list of "must haves" that you want a man who will be faithful. When you meet someone, no matter how attractive he is, before you fall head over heels and the flowers and sweet words are warping your thinking brain, check it out.

Find out his history. Ask around, look around. Get some coaching advice as to what things in the past are likely to be patterns, and what are mistakes he's learned from.

Then distance yourself from your emotions and take a look at things as they are in the present. Pay attention to how he acts when he's with you not just what he says, or promises. Get some help doing this, because it's important.

You need to know what you're getting in for before you're in deep water. In response to our extensive research and interviews with women about "the other woman," we started a very discrete investigative and coaching service with this in mind.

Most women find it's best to do this at arm's length, and let someone else with a clearer head and experience do the work and provide some direction. There are certain clues that can tip you off ahead of time, and "a stitch in time, saves 9." In this case it can save your heart, time and energy, all of which are important.

Important also, is that it can save you adding negative "baggage" to your own scene. Know those women who are in to "male bashing?" Stick with the good guys and you won't have to go there.

Intuition is a major part of EQ. If you're hearing things, or seeing things that send off an alarm, don't ignore them. Take action while you're still thinking clearly. The longer you stay in a relationship, the more likely you'll get into your own head and get confused; that's what "love" is all about.

You don't want to be "sadder but wiser" again, do you? Use your EQ and start dating the emotionally intelligent way -- using both your head and your heart.

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Susan Dunn, MA, Clinical Psychology, The EQ CoachT, Susan Dunn, MA, cEQc, The EQ Coach™, Susan Dunn. Bringing the power of Emotional Intelligence to YOUR life through coaching, eBooks, and distance learning. Midlife, retirement and transition coaching, career and relationships. Email for free EQ ezine. Want to be a certified EQ Coach? Email for information on this fast, affordable, comprehensive, no-residency program. Products available for licensing to build your practice. Visit the best ebook library on the Internet - EBook Library.

Susan Dunn. Susan is the author of "How to Live Your Life with Emotional Intelligence." I offer coaching around emotional intelligence for career, relationships, resilience (the skill for this decade), transitions, retirement, and personal and professional development. I train managers and coaches to teach EQ. Mailto: sdunn@susandunn.cc for FREE eZines. For free daily tips on how to develop your EQ, send blank email to: EQ4U.

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Tell Me More About the Tarot
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Rebecca Brents

Sometimes getting the right answer means asking the right question.

Life is full of hints, signs, and advice ... if you know where to look and what you're looking for.

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Eliminate Chaos: The 10-Step Process to Organize Your Home and Life
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