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If on the other hand, you happily make the cake and dance out the door to deliver it, your child may miss the point that sometimes helping others may require some inconvenience on one's own part.

Many things we do contain ambiguity, the hardest thing for kids to figure out. 'Does Mom like what she's doing, or doesn't she?'

Emotions are complex and so are our motives. We need instruction in their management. I recall telling my niece, "No I don't like to clean toilets. However, I like the feeling I get when the house is clean."

Outcomes

In the workplace, if you cheerfully take on extra assignments, you put yourself at-risk for being taken advantage of. If you're putting forth extra effort, you don't need to wear a hair-shirt about it, but if you don't point out what you're doing, it can and will be used against you.

Typical boss mentality dictates "Sheila never complains, so she's OK. Fred complains all the time. Therefore I'll give Fred a raise."

Emotional Expression

One of the EQ competencies is emotional expression. However, EQ isn't only about emotions, it's about the interface between thinking and feeling. We always need to explain ourselves to others, our "self" including both actions and feelings. Therefore we use our intellect to explain our emotions.

Good relationships require letting others know how you're feeling right away, alerting them immediately if they're off-course. It requires explaining "that look on your face."

Martha was having trouble at work. She was told in her performance review that no one liked to work with her. In coaching, she discovered that when she was focused, she had a look on her face that was misinterpreted as anger.

When she became aware of the effect she was having on others, she learned to modify her nonverbal behavior, i.e., to stop and smile when concentrating, and explain, so others would not be off-put.

Others Are Watching ... And Misinterpreting

Whatever you're doing, know the effect you're having on others. Check it out!

The above-mentioned piece ends with "How will you touch the life of someone today?" The adult task is to care, know, and check it out. Be sure you're touching the lives of others today the way you mean to. It's the emotionally intelligent way.

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