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Emotional Abuse: The Trauma and the Treatment
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	You Are Being Watched Part 1 by Susan Dunn Momentum Coaching
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There's a piece circulating the Internet now called "When You Thought I Wasn't Looking." It's attributed to "a former child," so I don't know whom to credit. It begins with, "When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you hang my painting on the refrigerator, and I immediately wanted to paint another one." It's about the things we inadvertently 'teach' our kids.

Its many examples show we teach not what we know, but who we are, which is as true in the workplace as it is in the home, regardless of the age of participants. It pertains to emotional intelligence, which I coach, which includes the competency of Intentionality -- doing what you intend to do.

EQ means understanding emotions (yours and others'), being able to manage and express them appropriately, and understanding the effect you have on others. Like learning about pride in work in the example above, we can't learn EQ just by reading about it. We can't 'get it' by listening to someone else talk about it.

We need to see it in action. We also need to put something out there and observe the results. To learn, we need to have pointed out to us what is going on, during and after the fact, because the emotional component can fog our thinking.

You are being watched, yes, and you are also being misinterpreted.

Interpreting Nonverbal Behavior

Whatever we are trying to teach our children, or those around us, it isn't stretching a point to say that a child could misinterpret the hanging of a painting on the refrigerator. You never know how a child is going to put things together, just as you never know how another adult will.

One little fellow in my household was incensed that I had hung his painting on the refrigerator, not proud. In the ensuing discussion, it turned out he thought if I'd really liked it, I would've framed it and hung it on the wall. "That's for babies," he said, pointing at the refrigerator.

I watched a scene the other day in the workplace, where a boss had foisted a stiff deadline on her assistant. The assistant looked intense as she started the job, then had to move to another desk when the computer locked up.

The boss started massaging her shoulders, saying, "I hate to stress you this way."

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