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	What's The Matter? Cat Got Your Tongue? Part 3 by Nancy R. Fenn Be My Astrologer
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What's The Matter?
Cat Got Your Tongue?
Part 3
by Nancy R. Fenn

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And so we enjoy doing it, listening. We know it gives pleasure to others and we are more aware than you can imagine of how much extroverts love to talk. We don't understand this need of yours but we are either indulgent of it or at the effect of it, so we are very aware of it.

Introverts Are Artful Dodgers

For these reasons, I wouldn't feel too bad about the balance, or about asking him to lunch. You can be reasonably sure he would do neither if he didn't want to. Introverts are quiet but not shy and we have little hesitation to turn down invitations that are a waste of time.

When we get among ourselves, we often talk about this -- we compare notes with humor on techniques for ducking people, phone calls, invitations, parties, answering machines, living in out of the way places, etc. It's a big topic and we are kind of proud at how good we get at it. It's an art.

If he's going out to lunch with you frequently, consider yourself "IN".

This May Be A Male/Female Issue Instead

As for the intimacy thing, I don't know too many men who dive into it, do you? I am also an astrologer and intuitive consultant and I wish I had $100 for every woman who has posed this same question to me. I think it is a universal male/female issue. There have been many books written on this subject such as Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. I find the intuitive approach works better for me.

I like to take the man's side for a moment and say, why not assume if he's there talking, he's interested and cares? We women have a way of thinking the whole relationship world revolves around us, our needs, our viewpoint and our sometimes very rigid ideas about what a relationship is.

Take another look at your need to hear these things -- there are many other ways to receive this information and perhaps you could develop this ability in yourself ... to sense, intuit, globally "feel" etc., his willingness to be in your presence which says he cares. Perhaps it is a matter of having confidence in yourself.

What I sense in your writing is that he's happy and comfortable until you pressure him for "more" and you are not happy and comfortable because you want more. If the real question is how can you move this from friendship to romance, that's another thing entirely.

Do you know what type he is? If so, I will send you something specific along the romance lines, the appropriate page from my dating introverts book.

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Nancy R. Fenn is an astrologer and intuitive consultant in the San Diego area. She enjoys working with intuitives, creatives and visionaries to help them discover their vision for the future and their mission in life. She has an international clientele and maintains a website full of good resources for astrologers of all levels. Nancy is also the Introverts' Coach providing support and resources for the eight different types of introverts. Introversion is a legitimate personality type and not a failure to be an extrovert.

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