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	Myths About Being Single at Christmas Part 1 by Susan Dunn Momentum Coaching
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Myths About Being Single at Christmas
Part 1
by Susan Dunn

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It was Sandy's first Christmas "alone." Her kids were going to their dads. When she told me, she burst into tears. "Christmas Eve alone," she sobbed, unable to continue.

"Come with me I said," beaming. "I'll show you! I have great Christmas Eves." My kids were always at their Dad's on Christmas Eve, because that's when they celebrated the occasion.

"I'll be alone," said Marta. "Alone for Christmas."

"What were doing last year?" I asked her, knowing full well her circumstances." "I seem to recall you were chasing him down through credit cards, and had just discovered he'd been rendezvousing monthly with a girl-friend in St. Paul."

"Um," she said. "This will be better than that."

A veteran of many Christmases, I'd like to share some thoughts on being single at Christmas time. Not to say that one or the other is better, simply to bring some consciousness to the situation, since there is always a lot of focus on couples and families around this time of year.

Single does not mean alone. Notice that it was the absence of the kids that was plaguing Sandy. And that Marta realized rapidly she was more "alone" with her faithless partner than on her own. "Alone" also does not automatically go with "single" at the holidays. Nor does "being not alone" insure happiness and good times.

More than 48% of US households are headed by unmarried individuals. The American Association for Single People (AASP) projects that by 2010, 47.2% of adults over the age of 18 will be unmarried.

1. Single people are lonely at Christmas.

No more so than anyone else. Loneliness is a state-of-mind. Single people, used to nurturing themselves, are probably better able to cope with "loneliness". This is a projection of people who fear "being alone for the holidays," probably a fear of the unknown. This is like the myth that seniors are unhappy. (According to studies, the happiest people on earth are people in their 70s.)

2. Single people need you to invite them over to your house for the holidays.

Contrary to perceptions, single people are v. popular at Christmas, and we generally receive lots of invitations. In fact, along about Halloween, it's time to duck-for-cover until I've had time to make up my mind how I want to spend my holidays. If you want us over, invite us, but because you like us, not because you think we need it.

3. Single people don't know what to do for the holidays.

On the contrary, we are used to planning our social lives actively. Having more options in general, we are used to creatively generating alternatives, and making our own decisions.

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