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The Circle of Life -- The Zodiac Signs and the New Moon's Journey
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Astrology is for Believers.

With an open mind and a knowledge of Astrology you can watch your life unfold in ways that make sense.

You can understand the demands of change and "what's really going on" in a crisis.

Whether in a gentle push in the right direction or in a "hard knock upside the head," you can read the message behind what life is asking of you.

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Your Immortal Reality: How to Break the Cycle of Birth and Death
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Gary Renard

Sometimes getting the right answer means asking the right question.

Life is full of hints, signs, and advice ... if you know where to look and what you're looking for.

Astrology and Tarot are tools that blend free will and useful information into new dimensions of thought ... so you can discover your best options. But the choice to act is always yours.

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	How to Keep Her in Love with You Part 1 by Susan Dunn Momentum Coaching
Astrology, Tarot, and Self Improvement for the New Age.

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How to Keep Her in Love with You
Part 1
by Susan Dunn

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It's the saddest thing to listen to a man who has lost his heart's darling. The hardest part is when they don't know why, and I hear this more often than you would imagine.

The plaintive, "But I loved her," is followed by, "I have no idea why she left."

It's bad enough to lose your love, without being stupefied on top of it all. Generally there are two explanations for this, both of which you can work on.

The first is denial, like the gentleman who told me he'd lost his wife and didn't know why but when pressed said it "might" have been because he had an affair, but "it shouldn't have mattered" because "she knew it didn't mean anything." The answer to this one is to quit fooling yourself. No one can pull the wool over your eyes except you. Rationalizing something you do that you know has about as much chance of hitting a home run as swinging at bad pitches, and then blaming the other person because you struck out is the victim stance. Get out of it and get responsible for what you do.

The second is from general cluelessness. If you often can't figure out what's going on around you, you may be in this category and it, too, has a remedy. Facts are easy to figure out. Emotional interchanges are not.

Staying in either place will insure you'll love again and lose her again. Or worse, because you're confused, you'll be afraid to love again and will choose women who are inappropriate and unavailable and then complain that it never works out. You'll stay safe, which is nice, but you'll be miserable, which isn't nice.

If you'd like to minimize that possibility, here are some tips.

DEVELOP YOUR EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

EQ is emotional fluency. It's the opposite of cluelessness. It begins with being aware of your own feelings, and extends to include understanding the feelings of others - the world of feelings.

The worse this possibility sounds to you, the more you probably need it.

Many men start thinking about what's in their heart because making it a mental thing feels better, but the end result is that you'll end up confused. Women don't like to be with a man who's confused about them. They want it straight and true.

In order to relate to the woman you love, and to keep the relationship alive, you have to know about this "confusion." If not, the relationship will die, and you can claim you don't know why, but is that what you want? Learn to know why.

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Tired of insipid, canned astrology reports full of white space and mysterious jargon?

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