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	Libra Astrology Self Improvement for Libra Why Do We Enter Into Relationships? Part 1 by Robert Najemy Holistic Hamony
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In order to create conscious love relationships, we need to understand the motives and needs which now cause us to form relationships.

We enter into relationships for the same reason we do everything else in our lives: because we are motivated by our needs. We seek out others in order to fulfill our unfulfilled needs. Alone we feel empty and isolated. We hope to complete ourselves through our relationships.

There are many levels of needs and desires which we seek to satisfy in our relationships, whether with a spouse, parent, child or friend.

1. One of our most basic needs is to feel secure. We feel more secure and safe when we are with someone. I have heard people who fear being alone at night in a remote house admit that they feel safer even if there is an infant or cat with them.

Obviously, this infant or cat will not protect them from any danger. We can see how important it is for us to feel that we are with someone else.

In primitive cultures, our safety was directly related to being in groups. Only in groups could we survive and be safe. If one were ostracized, he would quickly perish due to predators or lack of food. We associate safety with being with one or more persons who pledge they will be with us always, even when things are difficult.

For most of us, it is not sufficient that a person is with us now. In order to feel secure, we want to know that he or she will be with us forever. This is one of the reasons we give so much importance to exclusivity in our relationships.

If the person on whom we are dependent for our feelings of security begins to show attention to others, we tend to fear that we may lose him or her and thus our security. Such fear and jealousy is common when we are children and often continues in relationship to our spouse and close friends.

2. Another reason we fear our loved one's giving attention to others is that we are programmed to believe that we then lose our self-worth. The reasoning is that we believe we are worthy of love when there is at least one person in this world who loves only us.

We feel worthy and important because this person sees us as special and loves only us. If suddenly he or she also loves someone else, we feel intimidated.

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Robert Elias Najemy is the author of over 600 articles, 400 lecture cassettes on Human Harmony and 20 books; sold over 100,000 copies.

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