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	What To Do When Your Partner Runs Part 2 by Rinatta Paries WhatItTakes.com - Relationship Advice and Coaching
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What To Do When Your Partner Runs
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4. Don't convince. Sometimes attempting to convince someone not to leave looks like incessant talking to try to convince someone to come back into the relationship. This behavior is no different than other forms of chasing. The more you do it, the more likely you are to chase others away, rather than getting them to come back to you.

It is impossible to convince another person of anything, especially that they love or want to be with you. You want to be chosen and wanted out of free will, not out of the hard work of convincing someone to love you.

5. Stand still.

The minute you notice your partner has run away, stand still in response. As I have already said, don't chase, but don't run away either. Perhaps your partner will come to his or her senses and stop running. If you don't have an immediate reaction, there is a chance for things to resolve quickly and with minimum damage to the relationship.

How long should you stand still? Perhaps a day, a few days, or even a week, depending on your situation.

6. Communicate.

If you have stood still and done nothing to chase down your partner or to run away in reaction and still nothing has changed, it is time to communicate. Communicate only if you can be calm, cool, and collected.

Again, communicate only if you can be calm, cool and collected. If you get intense and emotional toward a person who has run away, he or she will simply run further and faster.

Here is what you want to communicate:

• Does he realize he has run away?
• Did you do something to contribute to the running away?
• Would she like to talk about what's going on?

Here is what you don't want to communicate:

• You miss him or her, especially terribly.
• You are in love with him or her.
• You would be very sad -- or worse, distraught -- if the relationship was over.
• You will do anything to save the relationship.

Such sentiments are more likely to drive your partner even further away.

7. Take care of yourself.

When your partner has run away, your first line of defense should be self-care. Self-care is a series of actions that make you feel ok again, like talking to others, journaling, exercising, sleeping, getting a massage, etc.

Do as many activities as necessary for you to feel whole and ok as much of the time as possible. This will help you tolerate the situation with grace and patience.

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