Interpreting Tarot -- Reading the Book of Life
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The Call : Finding and Fulfilling the Central Purpose of Your Life
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OS Guinness

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	What To Do When Your Partner Runs Part 3 by Rinatta Paries WhatItTakes.com - Relationship Advice and Coaching
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What To Do When Your Partner Runs
Part 3
by Rinatta Paries

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8. Run away a little yourself.

If nothing has changed yet and your partner still has not returned, run away a little yourself. This of course applies only if the person is still around in some way, mostly in a marriage or long-term relationship.

Do not run away as a way to play games or have an impact, but do so to express your feelings. Get in touch with how you feel about your partner running away. Does your partner's behavior make you want to be nicer to him or her, cook dinner for him or her, do yard work, etc.? Does your partner's behavior make you want to spend free time with him or her?

I would guess the answer to these questions is no. Most people do not genuinely want to be around partners who have run away from them. But most people feel compelled to create closeness to encourage their partners to come back.

However, intimacy in this case will encourage complacency or worse ... Nothing will change because nothing is wrong. Or more running will happen because there is too much intimacy.

9. Decide to stay or move on.

If the person left the relationship and does not come back, give it a little time. Grieve the relationship and then move on and find someone else who wants to be with you more and wants to run less.

If you are in a marriage or long-term relationship and the person has ran away emotionally or intimacy-wise, but is still present in other ways, give it a good amount of time to see if something changes. If there is no change, make a decision about whether you can live with how things are. If not, leave.

10. What to do if this happens repeatedly.

If the leaving/coming back-cycle repeats over and over again in your relationship, you undoubtedly feel like a yo-yo. You need to stop how the cycle affects you, if not the cycle itself.

If you have just started the relationship and the person is already running away and coming back repeatedly, you may want to end the relationship. To have this at the beginning of the relationship foreshadows how poorly it will likely turn out.

If you are in a long-term relationship or marriage and your partner is repeatedly running, you need to decide if there is any chance of the situation changing.

In my opinion, change can only take place when the person who has the running away problem is doing emotional work -- meaning the person can tell you why he or she is running away, that it is not your fault or responsibly, and that concrete steps are being taken to stop the running. If this is the case, change is possible and is often worth waiting for.

On the other hand, if what you hear is only remorse and promises to do better, there isn't likely to be change in the behavior. You may want to end the relationship.

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Libra is the astrology sign that deals specifically with Relationships, Cooperation, Teamwork, Diplomacy, Negotiation, and Cultural Issues. Learn more about Libra.
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