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	What To Do When Your Partner Runs Part 5 by Rinatta Paries WhatItTakes.com - Relationship Advice and Coaching
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What To Do When Your Partner Runs
Part 5
by Rinatta Paries

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Here are some additional points for specific types of relationships:

New Relationship/Casually Dating:

If your partner ran away to a former partner, take it as a warning sign, no matter what is said when your partner returns.

Additionally, know that a new relationship with a running partner is likely to end up in a break-up unless there is a darn good reason why the person ran away and has now come back.

Committed Dating/Newlyweds:

If your partner ran away because of fear of intimacy, find out what kind of personal or emotional work or breakthroughs have occurred to allow him or her to tolerate more intimacy.

Seasoned Marriage/Relationship:

Make sure your partner tells you what you need to change in your behaviour to prevent him or her from running again. There may not be a need for change, but the conversation about the change is necessary to understand what happened.

On the Verge of Break-up:

Go very, very slowly together. Do not make any sudden leaps into intimacy because that will create sudden leaps away from each other.

How to Tell if Your Partner Has Come Back for Good

There is no magic test that tells whether or not your partner has come back for good. In some way, after being reasonably convinced the relationship will work this time, you have to take a risk with your heart. You want it to be a smart risk.

This is why you need to enter and rebuild the relationship slowly, by being only as close as you are comfortable. In fact, you may find yourself torn most of the time. One part of you will want to rush into the relationship because you have missed your partner and want to get back to normal. But the other part of you will be holding back both trust and love until you feel safe.

Trust this second part and give it time. If you partner has truly returned, he or she will understand you need time and positive actions to become convinced the relationship will actually work.

How to Rebuild Trust, Passion, and Ultimately the Relationship

In addition to the passage of time, the following actions will rebuild your trust and good feelings toward one another, and will make your relationship better than it was before.

* Talk about the past

Each of you should talk about all aspects of what happened to your relationship. Talk about your feelings, thoughts, and experiences. Listen to each other. Talk about this as often as you need to, until the subject no longer comes up.

* Full disclosure/checking in

Each of you should initiate frequent conversations about how you are feeling about the relationship now. This will prevent any bad feelings from building up, will short-circuit your partner's desire to run, and diminish any fear on your part.

* Good experiences together

Each of you should consistently create or plan good, fun experiences together. Fun and joy reignite love.

* Intimacy

You should resume physical intimacy. If either one of you has a problem with this or is not interested, give it time. But, if time does not resolve the issue, seek help. No romantic relationship can survive without physical intimacy.

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