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	Mannerly Behavior 101 Part 2 by Susan Dunn Momentum Coaching
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Mannerly Behavior 101
Part 2
by Susan Dunn

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IT IS BRAIN SCIENCE

Now, since I'm an EQ coach, let's do a little brain science here. We "are" our emotions, which come from our brains. We like to feel good, and we hate to feel bad. We don't like to get angry; we like to be soothed. We hate insults; we adore compliments.

We like to be able to concentrate and think. We don't like to be disturbed and interrupted. A single noise at too high a decibel level can render us immediately deaf, but too much time in a sensory deprivation chamber drives us nuts. Like Goldilocks, we don't want too cold or too hot; we like it to be "just right."

We like our brain waves around beta and alpha. Beta is the normal waking consciousness, associated with concentration, arousal, alertness and cognition. However, at the higher levels, it's associated with anxiety. Too much arousal is not a good thing.

When we can relax into the alpha range, we feel really good. This is the "twilight" state between sleeping and waking. It's relaxed focus at its higher levels, and causes increase in serotonin production - the "feel good" chemical.

This is when you stare at a sunset, play with the baby, listen to beautiful music, or get a massage. (The other two are theta (dreaming sleep) and delta (dreamless sleep).

Our optimal state is just going about our business, in pleasant surroundings. Rudeness is anything that jars us; anything that puts us into too high a state of arousal. It is ideal that we could stay in equilibrium. It is rudeness to be thrust out of it.

Being RUDE isn't just saying certain words, it's failing on any number of levels to RESPECT the other person - their thoughts, feelings, body, senses, and soul.

What assaults us most are things that go directly to the reptilian brain - things that trigger sex or aggression. There you are quietly enjoying your bagel and coffee and someone shoves past you, saying "Move it ass****" and you start churning stomach acid, yes?

Rudeness is a violation of the other person's sensibilities, but the line is blurred and varies. It's like your mom told you about sex - it's not that you can't do it, it's when, where, how, and with whom.

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America's future will be determined by the home and the school. The child becomes largely what he is taught; hence we must watch what we teach, and how we live.
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Born September 6, 1869

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The Secret of Overcoming Verbal Abuse: Getting Off the Emotional Roller Coaster and Regaining Control of Your Life
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Albert Ellis, Marcia Grad Powers