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	Libra Astrology Self Improvement for Libra Red Flag! Avoiding Toxic Relationships Part 1 by Ernest Quansah
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Red Flag!
Avoiding Toxic Relationships
Part 1
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The end result of a toxic relationship is devastating and may require some form of healing or counseling. It is the kind of relationship that can leave you emotionally drained, sap your energy, and leave you severely broken up spiritually as well as emotionally leaving you with a feeling of emptiness.

In many cases victims may feel the need to seek revenge. The victim's symptoms may be anger, discouragement, frustration, emotional pain, the feeling of not being beautiful or desirable, loss of hope, afraid to trust and the wish to give up.

Men and women who inflict these kinds of devastating pain on their partners show signs of abuse in one form or another as a child, and as adults have not healed before going into a relationship.

The red flag to look for when you are in a relationship with a person who may be a threat to your emotional health are mood swings, short temper, inconsistencies, denial, and impulsive behaviors. The abuser will sometimes acknowledge that the way he or she is treating you is wrong but may not be able to take the necessary steps to stop. When they do try, they give up very easily.

When confronted about their abusive behaviour, they often say things like, "Oh, you are blowing everything out of proportion." They blame their partners and will not accept responsibility.

Clearly one can notice the inconsistencies in their behaviour and words. They are not able to feel the pain they inflict on their partners. This is because they have personality disorder. Their feelings are not very deep due to the damage caused by the abuse they experienced in their childhood.

I have found that many of these abusers say they have never been loved or cared for before. Thus they themselves do not know how to care or love a person they are in a relationship with. Often victims do not understand why they are treated in such a horrible way, feeling as though they are the cause of what is being done to them.

You must never think like that under any condition. You should not blame yourself for being abused. What you need to understand is that a person who does not know how to care or love can not love or care for you. Am I making sense? One cannot give you an orange if one does not have an orange to give you.

As a victim, you need to understand the risk in having a relationship with men and women who have not resolved what happened to them in the past. There are many cases where the abuser will be in a potentially perfect marriage, but the next thing you know they will leave. Often when there is something good in their lives such as a good love relationship, they will destroy it by the attitude they exhibit in the relationship.

Mr. Ernest Quanah is a relationship advisor and author of "How to Identify Your Soul Mate," a manual designed for men and women to help them recognize their soulmates. He is the founder of Soul Mate InfoServe, a website dedicated to those who seek confidential relationship advice from the privacy of their own homes. Visit Soul Mate InfoServe

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