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I stumbled across your site by accident about a year ago and admit to being a skeptic. Over the last year or so I have been stunned by the accuracy of your tarot predictions each week. This Sunday's prediction was for the end to financial hardship. On Monday I received an offer of employment which arrived after over a year of unemployment due to illness. Not only was it a job for which I am well qualified, but also a 40% pay increase over what I was earning before I became unwell, and working in an industry I had never before considered. This not the first time you have been correct -- you've predicted major arguments, frustrations, and unexpected travel. I'm beginning to wonder if there isn't more to tarot than meets the eye!
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You know, this would be a great business if it weren't for having to deal with people all the time ....
OK, so maybe I've exaggerated things a bit, but we've all certainly heard that saying before. Why does that sentiment ring true for so many folks? Obviously it's because of all the people challenges we're presented with in our business. Virtually every one of my clients over the years has brought up the subject of dealing with difficult people.
There's no escaping the fact that they come into everyone's lives at one time or another. Sometimes they come in the form of an unhappy or hard-to-get-along-with client, customer, or co-worker. Sometimes they're a person we report to or someone who reports to us. And sometimes they're just someone we happen to come in contact with like a store clerk.
Whoever they are, they can cause anxiety, frustration, concern, or anger in us and can even cause us to become like them -- someone difficult to deal with.
Sometimes the best way to deal with a difficult person is to avoid them altogether -- give them wide berth. But often we don't have that option. The difficult person is someone we simply have to deal with. Most people would say that in those situations, we have three options.
These options are: 1) Try to change ourselves, 2) Try to change the other person, and 3) Resolve to tolerate the situation -- basically decide to put up with them. I'd like to suggest that there's a fourth, very effective option as well -- perhaps the most effective of the four options. Let's spend some time discussing these four options.
1) Try to Change Ourselves
Your first instinct might be, "Why should I be the one to change?" In fact quite often you'll find that to be an appropriate response! Often there is nothing about what we do or say to cause the other person to be difficult. We are usually not the catalyst for their behavior.
But sometimes we are. Haven't you had people in your life who just rubbed you the wrong way? You're fine around pretty much everyone else, but around a particular person, you get defensive, anxious, angry, and difficult to deal with? I think we all have. If you've had people in your life who cause you to become difficult or obstinate, then doesn't it stand to reason that you may be causing that same reaction in someone?
It's in situations like this that we have to examine our own behaviors and reflect on whether we're the cause. Frequently however, we're blind to our shortcomings. We don't see what we don't see. How do you find out whether you're the cause of the other person's difficult behavior? Option 4 holds the answer.

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Michael Beck is President of Exceptional Leadership, Inc., a leadership development and executive coaching firm dedicated to creating effective leadership for higher profits and greater job satisfaction.
His background enables him to help clients develop their leadership abilities, broaden their strategic thinking, adopt new perspectives, and create a stronger executive presence.
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