Interpreting Tarot -- Reading the Book of Life
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Astrology is for Believers.

With an open mind and a knowledge of Astrology you can watch your life unfold in ways that make sense.

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Sometimes getting the right answer means asking the right question.

Life is full of hints, signs, and advice ... if you know where to look and what you're looking for.

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Goddesses in Everywoman: Powerful Archetypes in Women's Lives
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	Difficult People How To Deal With Them Part 1 by Alan Fairweather
Astrology, Tarot, and Self Improvement for the New Age.

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Difficult People
How To Deal With Them
Part 1
by Alan Fairweather

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1. Don't get Hooked !!!

When people behave towards you in a manner that makes you feel angry, frustrated or annoyed -- this is known as a Hook.

We can even become "Hooked" by the way people look, how they talk, how they smell and even by their general demeanour.

If we take the bait then we are allowing the other person to control our behaviour. This can then result in an unproductive response.

We have a choice whether we decided to get hooked or stay unhooked.

2. Don't let them get to you.

We often allow the other persons attitude to irritate or annoy us. This becomes obvious to the other person through our tone of voice and our body language. This only fuels a difficult situation.

When dealing with difficult people, stay out of it emotionally and concentrate on listening non-defensively and actively. People may make disparaging and emotional remarks -- don't rise to the bait!

3. Listen -- listen -- listen.

Look and sound like you're listening. - When face-to-face you need to look interested, nod your head and keep good eye contact. Over the 'phone - you need to make the occasional "Uh Hu - I See"

If the other person senses that you care and that you're interested in their problem, then they're likely to become more reasonable.

4. Get all the facts -- write them down.

Repeat back (paraphrase) the problem to ensure your understanding and to let the other person know that you are listening.

5. Use names.

A persons name is one of the warmest sounds they hear. It says that you have recognised them as an individual. It is important not to overdo it as it may come across as patronising to the other person. Make sure they know your name and that you'll take ownership for the problem.

6. DON'T blame someone or something else.

7. Watch out for people's egos.

" Don't interrupt " Don't argue " Don't jump in with solutions " Allow them to let off steam " Don't say, "Calm down".

8. See it from the other person's point of view.

Too often we think the "difficult" person is making too much fuss. We think -- "What's the big deal; I'll fix it right away". It is a big deal for the other person and they want you to appreciate it.

You don't necessarily need to agree with the person however you accept the fact that it's a problem for them.

Go to: Self-Improvement for Aries, Self-Assertion, Showing Initiative, Being a Leader -- Being a Manager, Managing Conflict, Taking Action, Qualities of Successful People, Relationships, New Age Blogs, The Spotlight Blog

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Alan Fairweather is the author of four ebooks in the "How to get More Sales" series. Lots of practical actions you can take to build your business and motivate your team.-- How to Get More Sales

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Are you looking for more information on Initiative, Assertiveness, Goal Setting, and Anger Management?

Aries is the astrology sign that deals specifically with Initiative, Assertiveness, Goal Setting, and Anger Management. Learn more about Aries.
The information here tells all about Aries Astrology.

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Choose your friends carefully. Your enemies will choose you.
~ Yasser Arafat ~
Born August 24, 1929

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