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The assistant had sensitive neck muscles, so the massage caused pain instead of relief. It was also distracting. Also, because of the statement, she had to worry about her boss' feelings as well as her own plus do the job.

The assistant turned, drew a deep breath and said, with a big smile on her face, "I appreciate the massage, but it hurts and it's distracting. I'm trying to concentrate. I'm not angry at being asked to do this, and not angry at you. What I am is frustrated because ..." and she listed the chronic computer inadequacies. "What would help," she said, "is if you would ..." and gave her boss something concrete to do that would forward the task.

Later, when the job was finished, they took up the conversation again. "I like to shine," the assistant said, "and I can't when I don't have the proper equipment."

The boss made a note to address that problem.

Processing Emotionally-Laden Events

The same scenario is played out daily in every office. There's no way two people won't be affected by the feelings of the other; and, counter-intuitively, if one is trying to hide feelings, the effect is even greater. The less they're expressed, the more they'll be open to misinterpretation.

We can't know what's going on with someone else unless we ask. In today's multicultural offices, it's particularly dangerous to assume the meaning of an action, gesture or expression. Did you know that in the Middle East, one of the most insulting things you can do is show another person the sole of your shoe?

Tell that to the lawyer whose office I entered the other day, who routinely talks on the phone with his feet on the desk, soles pointing toward the incoming visitor!

Only a discussion about what's going on can get us inside one another's mind and heart. In the heat of the moment, such a discussion may have to be postponed, but for good relationships and learning, it does need to take place. The feelings need to be addressed, and the often-misinterpreted nonverbal displays untangled.

Intentionality

If you want to model good deeds for your child, and make a cake to bring to an ailing neighbor, be sure you address all parts of the action, e.g., make sure you're teaching what you mean to be teaching. This is Intentionality, an EQ competency.

If you perform the act begrudgingly, as some sort of onerous "duty," throwing the ingredients together and complaining the whole time about how overworked you are, you will have defeated your deeper purpose. Unless you mean to teach that life is about detrimental self-sacrifice and suffering.

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Cancer is the astrology sign that deals specifically with Home, Family, Emotional Security, and Feelings. Learn more about Cancer.
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I can't seem to bring myself to say, "Well, I guess I'll be toddling along." It isn't that I can't toddle. It's that I can't guess I'll toddle.
~ Robert Benchley ~
Born September 15, 1889

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