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	When It's Time to Say Goodbye Part 1 by Susan Dunn Momentum Coaching
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When It's Time to Say Goodbye
Part 1
by Susan Dunn

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One of the things we all dislike about psychologists is terms like "vulnerable to loss." Who, pray tell me, is not "vulnerable to loss"?

It is devastating to lose someone who made your world a better place. Or some thing that did, like a career, a special house, your left leg, the ability to have an erection, or your short-term memory.

Vulnerability in this case refers to something built up. Losing something important to us can weaken us for further ones. It takes tremendous resilience to weather some of the storms of life.

This weekend I am saying goodbye to something I treasured. It is time to say goodbye.

The hardest part is to give up hope; to say "There is nothing more I can do."

I am reminded to remember this place. It's so not-useful to hear "get over it," or "we don't love men who don't love us," or "it wasn't meant to be," or "all good things come to and end."

Yes, yes, yes! we protest. I know that, but it doesn't apply to ME.

It's emotional turmoil, and it's a mental struggle. Death is final; Pluto was the only god to whom there was no altar. Prayers, begging, wishing, whining don't work. When it's parting on the mortal plane, one is left to try and comprehend the incomprehensible.

And what is that about? One reason dogs do so well with, say, a severed limb, is that they can't think about it. That brain is missing in all but humans. They don't lie awake at night asking themselves "Why did this happen to me?" and "How am I supposed to live without this?" (There's a video out now about a dog that gets around, believe it or not, on two hind legs.) They "make do," as my grandmother used to say, and "making do" is easier if you aren't comparing yourself and your condition to that of others, or to what you thought yours would be, or should be, or even to what it was previously. You take the moment and you cope.

Most of our emotions are attached to thoughts. One of the reasons we humans turn to anesthetizers like drugs and alcohol is because they stop the thoughts and numb the pain. However they bring more trouble into your life in the long run. You exchange current pain for future pain.

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