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The Creative Age : Awakening Human Potential in the Second Half of Life
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	Your Emotional Buttons Part 2 by Julie Fuimano
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Your Emotional Buttons
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In fact, if you identify the behavior that was bothersome, and you share this with the other person, it's possible that they will be grateful. People often don't know or pay attention to how their behavior impacts others. By sharing your feelings with them and asking them to treat you a certain way, you honor yourself and you honor them by offering them the opportunity to be a better person.

It is also possible they will not change. This may very well be who they are and how they like to be. Do not judge them. They have the right to be who they are and you don't have to like it. If you find their behavior unacceptable or distasteful, then you have a choice to not be with them. Find people who appreciate you and who are willing to respect you and treat you the way you want to be treated.

So often people think they do not have a choice. There is always a choice.

Two things to know about buttons -- the first is that you are responsible for your buttons. Eliminate them and no one can ever get to you in this way again. The second is that if you are working on your buttons and someone in your life continues to push them, then it begs the question, why are you choosing to be with this person? Respect is a major part of any relationship and if this person cannot be compassionate and understanding, and demonstrate respect toward you, then why are they in your life?

If it's your boss, you may need to find other work depending upon the situation. If it's your spouse, then don't just put up with it, deal with this directly by learning more masterful communication techniques. Pushing someone's buttons, making them upset is not a loving thing to do. Children will often do it but you are responsible for your reaction. Discovering your buttons and eliminating them is a wonderful gift you give to yourself. It's very freeing to be beyond your ability to get upset by learning how to mange your emotions and use them as messengers to you and as opportunities to develop closer relationships with others.

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Are you looking for more information on Home, Family, Emotional Security, and Feelings?

Cancer is the astrology sign that deals specifically with Home, Family, Emotional Security, and Feelings. Learn more about Cancer.
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