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Yes, you have just started to teach him how to treat you. You have just said, "That's ok, I am desperate, so if you don't call me, you can count on me to call you!"

Another example: You have been dating for a few weeks. In the beginning, you had a great time but he had this annoying habit of dropping you off and hitting a bar afterwards. You knew that he was dropping you off early on the weekends so that he could have some free time with his buddies. You wanted to be one of "those cool chicks" so you didn't say anything about it. Weeks became months, and suddenly that little pang of annoyance has turned into a huge throbbing pain in the....

You know what I mean. But, you thought he would change his behavior. You thought it would pass.

This leads me to TIP NUMBER TWO: WHEN PEOPLE SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE, BELIEVE THEM.

But Heidi, you teach that with the Law of Attraction, you should focus on the positives about a guy! Yes, and I say that being positive does not mean being blind.

What I mean is, if you start to notice disturbing qualities in a guy, look at them and ask yourself this question: "If this behavior or quality was never to go away, would I be okay with that?" You have to know two things. First, you cannot change anyone. And second that you have to be okay with him as he is, not how you want him to be.

So, if the answer is yes, although I do not like this quality, I can live with it. - Then motor on. But if it's no, understand you can't change anyone!

Also, the Law of Attraction is for you to create your own reality, not create a new reality for someone else. Meaning, you can use it to attract the right guy for you, but it's not witchcraft!

TIP NUMBER THREE: IF WHAT YOU FOCUS ON EXPANDS: FOCUS ON YOURSELF!

I used to wonder sometimes if I was the only one on the planet who felt so smart yet so stupid. I knew better than to sit around...feel lonely and make excuses. But, and yes...there was a but... it was hard to stop thinking about it all of the time. All I did was meditate on how lonely I was. Listen, I read the books. I knew that just by the simple act of meditating on being lonely, I was generating loneliness... like putting out the welcome mat and pouring the tea.

How do you get past that? I wondered. How do you just go..."ok...there it is...I feel lonely"...then get all smiley and say something in the mirror like... "My life is full of friends. I have so many offers to date and get out that I don't know which one to pick!" Plain and simple truth: that wasn't the case!

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Libra is the astrology sign that deals specifically with Relationships, Cooperation, Teamwork, Diplomacy, Negotiation, and Cultural Issues. Learn more about Libra.
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