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	How To Know If It's Time To Stay or Go In Your Relationship? Brenda Shoshanna Part 1 by Brenda Shoshanna
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How To Know If It's Time To Stay or Go In Your Relationship?
Brenda Shoshanna
Part 1
by Brenda Shoshanna

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Many individuals spend a great deal of time in relationships wondering if the person is right for them, whether they should stay or go. This question can become so persistent that it interferes with being able to relax and allow the bond to grow.

There are a number of different factors that cause individuals to doubt their relationships. Some say that although they love the person they do not know if they are loved back; others don't know if they're ready for commitment; some are concerned about qualities or behaviors they're uncomfortable with. Others remain in relationships hoping to change their partners, or from fear of being alone. In many cases individuals don't want to lose the time they've put in, can't face starting all over again. Many fear they always pick the wrong person.

There are certain checkpoints we can utilize to see whether the relationship is right, whether we should stay or go.

Checkpoints: Ask Yourself:

1) Am I counting on the fact that the person will change one day?

It is always a mistake to stay in a relationship if it is based upon wanting the other person to change. Although people promise to change, change is difficult and only happens when an individual wants to for themselves. When a person changes to please their partner, this change is temporary, because in order to change deep patterns, time, work, committment and effort are needed. See how much of this person you can accept just as they are. If you want to change most of them, it's best to let go. If there are just a few areas that bother you, try to accept them as they are. When a person feels accepted often to everyone's surprise these difficult qualities change all by themselves.

2) Even though they say they love me, do I feel appreciated and loved?

It is one thing to express love verbally and other for it to be real. If you consistently do not feel loved and appreciated, pay attention to that. For love to be real it must be acted upon. Individuals feel loved when they feel considered, listened to and respected. If your partner says they love you, and does not take your needs into account, then this is not love, just some kind of emotional attachment. Trust your feelings. If the relationship is basically good for you, you will feel cared for and caring.

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Libra is the astrology sign that deals specifically with Relationships, Cooperation, Teamwork, Diplomacy, Negotiation, and Cultural Issues. Learn more about Libra.
The information here tells all about Libra Astrology.

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When Difficult Relatives Happen to Good People: Surviving Your Family and Keeping Your Sanity
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