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	What's your Definition of Fun? Part 2 by Susan Dunn Momentum Coaching
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What's your Definition of Fun?
Part 2
by Susan Dunn

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ARE WE HAVING FUN YET?

The other day my young friend Alberta invited me over. I work at home, and I'm sure it's projection, but often someone will call me and say, "You need to get OUT. You need to have some FUN." "Come on over," she said. "We'll have some FUN."

So I went over to Alberta's, for two hours of trying to talk around a screaming, nose-running, tantrum-throwing, stranger-hating two-year-old in a house that looked like a war zone and smelled like dirty diapers. I left a little early, not that it hadn't been "fun."

Just for the heck of it, I looked up "fun" in the dictionary, and now I see the problem. Here it is:

Fun:

1. What provides amusement or enjoyment; specifically: playful often boisterous action or speech

2. A mood for finding or making amusement 3. Violent or excited activity or argument ("let a snake loose in the classroom; then the fun began")

This is what I suspect and fear when most people tell me, "Let's have some fun." The snake loose in the classroom sort of thing. That is not my idea of "fun". And now I see why things in offices go the way they do -- someone considers "violent argument" to be "fun." YIKES!!

Of course it depends upon what you're leaving at home. A snake-in-a-classroom kind of experience could be preferable to say, a sick husband, a broken toilet, telemarketers on the phone, Jehovah's witnesses at the door, news that Uncle Roy is coming to visit, two kids fighting, and a dog with diarrhea. Everything's relative.

But having gotten my life mostly in order, I don't look for danger, more hassle, or things that leave me fatigued or drained. These things to me are not "amusements." I look for things that leave me refreshed and relaxed.

DATING

Is it just me who gets puzzled when asked on a date, "What do you like to do for fun?" Maybe that's particular to south Texas, but my answer to that question could go on for an hour. I find many things fun. It would be quicker to ask me what I don't like to do for fun: Get hurt, Hurt someone else, or anything involving the District Attorney's office.

Furthermore, having Authenticity, as we call it in EQ, if I'm doing something, generally speaking I'm enjoying it and having fun. So at the point the gentleman asks me "What do you like to do for fun?" I could also answer in one word: "This."

Sadly, that question immediately tells me HE isn't having "fun." I'm almost always "having fun" or I'd be doing something different.

Perhaps the question those gentleman mean is "What can you and I do NEXT that would be fun?" Now that's a fair question and quite answerable because it allows for the constraints of the situation--who's involved, what the nature of our relationship is, where we are, how much time we have, how much money we've got, and what the temperature is!

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