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2. FORMER SPOUSE (DECEASED).

a. Carry on: She talks lovingly about her deceased husband, occasionally crying on your shoulder and sharing memories, but has accepted his death, doesn't idealize him, and talks about you and the future. She's "decathecting" -- moving her emotions from him, to you, and you can feel it.

b. Weigh it: He expresses grief, but has negative feelings about marriage, or has compared you negatively to her more than once. He continues to bring it up when you're with others. He sometimes expresses anger, or takes the victim position. He appears to be getting emotionally involved with you, but there is ambivalence.

c. Chuck It: He is not investing in you emotionally, but is using his time with you to grieve. There's no talk about a future with you and no energy for it; he's lost in the past.

3. DEATH OF A CHILD.

a. Carry on: Some time has passed. She mentions the child occasionally, especially on important anniversaries, and is able to talk about it without breaking down. She shares mostly with you, not others. Talks more about her surviving children. Has reached acceptance and resignation. Is investing in you emotionally. Has taken on new interests with enthusiasm and energy, enjoying her life again.

b. Weigh It: He's still working it through, but isn't obsessed with it. Anger and blaming have subsided. He's beginning to talk as much about his surviving children. His periods of being emotionally unavailable are shorter and less intense and he experiences some pleasure in life.

c. Chuck it: He won't talk about it and is shut down, or obsessed; in either case, not emotionally available. Shock and anger are early stages of grief. Not everyone recovers from this and dares to love again.

4. PROBLEMS WITH CHILDREN (DIVORCE).

a. Carry on: He knows there are problems, and is working on solution, taking action. Fully invested in you, talks about it, intends to heal the wounds.

b. Weigh it: Still angry at former spouse and blaming. Sometimes approaches solutions to healing the wound. Appears to be recouping and to have more energy for this. Is slowing becoming less pessimistic. Reaching out to kids.

c. Chuck it: Lots of anger at former husband, resigned that relationship with children isn't possible. Can't 'hear' alternatives, won't try, is cynical and bitter. Refuses to talk about it, but it's eating her up.

5. BANKRUPTCY, DEBT, LOSS OF RETIREMENT, BUSINESS FAILURE.

a. Carry on: Not a pattern. She's resilient; actively seeking solutions. Not acting the victim or accepting permanent defeat. No shame and blame. Past financial situation has been stable.

b. Weigh it: You discover more than one instance. He's talking about trying again and shows insight and increasing energy but hasn't taken action. History reveals he's neither a quitter nor irresponsible. He talks about it without shaming and blaming. Watch for signs of recovery. Taking positive action is a good sign. Passive pessimism is a bad sign.

c. Chuck it: Serial incidents. No concern. Trying to borrow money from you. Running up bills with no efforts to become viable again. Cynical, pessimistic, clinically depressed, suicidal, abusing substances.

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