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	Letting Go of Beliefs That Don't Work Part 2 by Susan Dunn Momentum Coaching
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Letting Go of Beliefs That Don't Work
Part 2
by Susan Dunn

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Whenever you hear someone say, "I can't believe." it's because a belief of theirs has been assaulted, and they aren't willing to face that fact. It happens, for instance, if you think everyone's going to treat you right. Some people stay too long in relationships because their underlying belief, their assumption is that they'll always be treated right. Their husband abuses them and they say, "He didn't mean to" or "But he really loves me." That's an underlying belief that's flying in the face of reality. Someone who loves someone doesn't abuse them.

These underlying beliefs tend to be self-fulfilling, too. I remember reading in a text book that "life is hard." I've had my ups and downs, but on the whole I hadn't found life to be hard. I wondered where that statement had come from. Over the years, I've found people who felt that way did indeed have hard lives, and I wondered which came first - the cart of the horse. If you believe life is hard, surely, I think, you will go about proving that, because we're very clever about that sort of thing. What if you changed that belief to "life is easy"? What would you lose? What would you gain?

The other day I heard a very low EQ guy yell, "It doesn't help to be nice." He was furious because someone had thwarted him, and hadn't done what he wanted.

Sometimes it doesn't help to be nice, I thought to myself, but it doesn't hurt, either. What if you were nice and didn't get what you wanted? At least you would still have been nice. The difference would be all to yourself, the person that matters. It makes a difference in how well you sleep at night, I think.

If you operate under the premise that the only way you'll get what you want is to be nasty, I imagine you'll get even less of what you want, and you'll also feel a lot worse, since nastiness is its own punishment, just as niceness is its own reward.

What if you believe that you can't forgive someone unless they come to you on bended knee? Forgiveness is one of those things that's also it's own reward. When you forgive, it's your self and your sanity that you're saving. The event or incident remains the same, and can't really be taken back. If you continue to relive it, letting it fester, you eat yourself up with little effect on the perpetrator. The most important injustices in life, no one could apologize for anyway. You'd have to ask life itself to apologize to you, and that isn't possible. It's comforting to believe someone's at fault, but sometimes things just happen, that aren't really under the control of anyone.

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