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Aries Astrology Self Improvement for Aries Being Assertive Can Be Spiritual Part 1 by Fran Hafey / Mysti Mystickblue |
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Being Assertive Can Be Spiritual Part 1 by Fran Hafey / Mysti
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Being assertive in this day and age is usually the second choice after being polite. I have seen it many times when people would rather not make waves or are just being nice, rather than saying what they really mean or the extreme opposite where people go our of their way to be nasty.
I made a deal with myself back two years ago on New Year's Eve. I decided I would not spend my very important time doing things or being around people that had a negative affect on me. I am the one who chooses where I go, who I spend my time with and how I react to others and situations.
I have had people, mainly my family, voice their opinions and tell me that they think I am too blunt at times, but ... it's all in the pitch. I am not rude or impolite, I am just direct and assertive about what I expect.
In the world I grew up in, I observed that people generally let others run all over them, to be nice. Then they talk behind their backs. Why are people afraid to say the truth? I have been told it's because they don't want to be impolite or hurt the person's feelings.
Ok, so I am confused. If they are afraid of saying what is truly on their minds, then why think it in the first place? Why not say what we truly feel and just get everything out in the open? So, by this thinking, I am deemed overbearing, rude, critical, and just plain not nice??
I am not a mean person and don't say things to hurt people deliberately, but I have given my views and thoughts before when it was not asked for. Often what I am thinking is my opinion anyway, and it's a personal decision and everyone's right to do what they want, act, be who they are and live the way they want to live.
We have to choose our words and thoughts carefully no matter if we're having a bad day or just are tired of the way a person is behaving. It truly takes a lot of personal power to refrain from saying hateful things when someone grates our nerves and our energy is totally different.
If all our thoughts are loving and peaceful, then what's the problem? Well, that is not the way it is in our world. Not all our thoughts and words we speak are loving and peaceful. I work towards that, but I admit, I am human and I fall short of it too sometimes.

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Fran Hafey is a Spiritual Counselor, Writer, Healer, Earth Activist and Lightworker. She provides guidance and inspiration via her Website, groups and newsletter through the Internet and other Resources. To read more of her articles visit the Author's Website: MystickBlue or Spiritual Pathways
She's currently working on publishing her own books about Love, peace Inspiration, magic, Soul connections and nature stories for Children of all ages.

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